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This week's taste is on boundaries in sex work-- critical to your health and emotional wellbeing.
Read MoreDear Lola,
One of my best fans keeps pressuring me to do things I don’t want to do, including meet IRL. I’m not going to, no matter what, because that’s a promise I made to my mom and my sister when I told them I was camming. (And I really don’t want to, anyway!) But he only lives two hours away, and he keeps wanting me to tell him about my real life. I’m worried he’s going to try and find me… I know I make him sound kind of terrible, but he really is a nice guy and tips me all the time. I don’t want to lose him as a fan!
Sincerely,
Tempted/Not Tempted
Jerks happen. We can’t just ignore them and hope they go away. We have to be proactive. Here's a three-step plan to keep the bastards from getting you down.
Read MorePeople say all the time that hard work is the secret to success at camming, but what does that actually mean? It starts with maintaining good boundaries, because most clients are trying to haggle three things: time, money, and what you’re willing to do.
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