The Thriving in Sex Work Workbook is a companion guide to Thriving in Sex Work, filled with exercises, budgets, self-care guides, and business plans to keep your mind, body, and business thriving. Available NOW in paperback at Amazon.
Today's sample is on the subject of sadness.
Read MoreThe Thriving in Sex Work Workbook is a companion guide to Thriving in Sex Work, filled with exercises, budgets, self-care guides, and business plans to keep your mind, body, and business thriving. Available NOW in paperback at Amazon. This week's sample chapter is metta meditation.
Read MoreThe companion workbook to Thriving in Sex Work is filled with exercises, budgets, self-care guides, and business plans to keep your mind, body, and business thriving. Available on Amazon in paperback.
This week's taste is on boundaries in sex work-- critical to your health and emotional wellbeing.
Read MoreI’m happy to announce that I’ll be releasing the Thriving in Sex Work Workbook in March. It’s a companion guide to Thriving in Sex Work, filled with exercises, budgets, self-care guides, and business plans to keep your mind, body, and business thriving. Here's a taste!
Read MoreI've been reading a lot of tweets and posts about seasonal business slowdown, so here's a post on winter and self care from Thriving in Sex Work.
Read MoreOne of the most consistent complaints I see all the time throughout the sex industry is that people feel like they don’t have enough time, money, or energy for outside interests. It’s one of those paradoxes about the job—even though often the hours are flexible, and there can be good money in it, why does it seem like there’s never anything left over for family, friends, and fun?
Read MoreWhen I look back on my working days, I remember how deeply I felt that identity in my bones. Every morning, I would wake up and say to myself, “I am a prostitute. I made [X] dollars this week.” Whenever I left the house, walking down the street, riding a bus, I would look around and wonder if anyone could see it on me, if something about me revealed it to the world.
Read MoreIn the modern age, the internet provides endless opportunities for us to follow other people’s public lives in ways that can make us feel like we don’t measure up. There’s even a fancy new term for it: Obsessive Comparison Syndrome. OCS is “a compulsion to compare oneself with others in a way that produces anxiety and depression.”
Read MoreFocus on you. After all, your profile is the only one you have any control over, and the only one that will bring you any business. Obsessing over what others do distorts your values and intentions.
Read MoreTerrific podcast with Cameron Airen of Real Feminist Stories. We discuss sex work and self-care, of course, along with shame, emotional labor, and the intersection of feminism and sex work.
Read MoreNow is the time for making New Year’s resolutions. Here’s what I want for you in the coming year: more time, more money and more energy.
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