I used to hammer away at myself when I worked-- the slightest little mix-up or error, and I would beat myself up mercilessly for days.
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The only thing worse than some bad thing unexpected happening is that sinking feeling that comes from knowing we didn’t prepare for it when we could have. We owe it to ourselves to set contingencies in place, just in case.
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It’s okay to let go of people who aren’t really your friends. This was a surprisingly difficult lesson. Holding onto people too long caused me a lot of pain and drama.
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I never encountered anyone who aged out of the sex industry. I saw people quit for all kinds of reasons, but nobody I ever met celebrated some black magic birthday and *poof* their phones stopped ringing.
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Focus on you. After all, your profile is the only one you have any control over, and the only one that will bring you any business. Obsessing over what others do distorts your values and intentions.
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You are sexy as fuck, just as you are. Stop obsessing with some imaginary version of yourself. Instead, love what you’ve got.
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Let me tell you what sex work money means, if no one has ever told you.
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Sometimes you think that fellow cammer is going to be your BFF, but things don't work out like you hoped.
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A book I recommend for sex workers struggling with any aspect of their finances --- earning, saving, spending.
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Winter is not an easy time in the sex industry. We need to plan accordingly.
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You are under no obligation to tell anyone you are camming. Ever. Not your mother, your old roommate, your best friend. You are an adult. Nobody owns you. You can be sexual and make money any way you see fit – no one needs to know about it.
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In order to make real money in sex work, you have to treat it like a real job. In camming, you get to be your own boss. What kind of boss are you going to be for yourself?
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