This is "Big Mama." It was her voice that guided me through the writing of Thriving in Sex Work.
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A book I recommend for sex workers struggling with any aspect of their finances --- earning, saving, spending.
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"Coming out" as a cam model to friends and relatives requires not just bravery, but also skill and forethought, especially during the holidays. Here are some tips for helping your loved ones hear your message right the first time.
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One thing I’d love to give to every sex worker alive would be the gift of mindfulness. It wouldn’t alleviate poverty, resolve injustice, or wipe out whorephobia. But mindfulness surely does have a positive affect how we relate to problems as well as making us feel at home in our own bodies and minds.
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Winter is not an easy time in the sex industry. We need to plan accordingly.
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One of the things I’m most grateful for? Talya De Fay, Australian sex worker, Quora Expert, host of the Scarlett Academy website, and all-around inspiration.
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You are under no obligation to tell anyone you are camming. Ever. Not your mother, your old roommate, your best friend. You are an adult. Nobody owns you. You can be sexual and make money any way you see fit – no one needs to know about it.
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One of slut-shaming’s most potent weapons is the rule: Sluts Don’t Get To Regret. Whether they wanted it, whether they chose it, whether they said yes to one thing, but that led to something else they didn’t want, sluts don’t get to wish things had gone otherwise. Sluts get what they deserve.
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Many things in camming are out of your control, but time is one over which you have power. Time-management determines three incredibly important things: how much money you make, how consistently you make it, and whether or not you burn out.
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I'm tremendously honored to be asked to be a regular contributor to YNOTcam.com, writing about health and wellness for cammers!
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No barfing, and I didn't fall down. All-in-all, a pretty good night!
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In order to make real money in sex work, you have to treat it like a real job. In camming, you get to be your own boss. What kind of boss are you going to be for yourself?
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