Three podcasts in three weeks, and a new article dropping for YNOTcam.com -- I've been busy!
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You can check me out on This Damn World, talking about sex work, self-care, and the new Tr*mp Regime. Her Name was Lola
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How do you motivate yourself on those days when the last thing you want to do is cam? A bad attitude is bad for business. Here’s some advice on what to do when you just aren’t feeling it.
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Jerks happen. We can’t just ignore them and hope they go away. We have to be proactive. Here's a three-step plan to keep the bastards from getting you down.
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The whole world ogles sex workers; sex workers’ attention is glued to their clients; clients take everything in, revealing nothing. It’s about time clients step out into the light, take full responsibility for themselves, and write their own damned books.
Read MoreDear Madame Murphy-- Thanks for stopping by and leaving a comment. Unfortunately, it got lost somehow, so I'm responding to you in a blog posting.
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Now is the time for making New Year’s resolutions. Here’s what I want for you in the coming year: more time, more money and more energy.
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This is "Big Mama." It was her voice that guided me through the writing of Thriving in Sex Work.
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A book I recommend for sex workers struggling with any aspect of their finances --- earning, saving, spending.
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"Coming out" as a cam model to friends and relatives requires not just bravery, but also skill and forethought, especially during the holidays. Here are some tips for helping your loved ones hear your message right the first time.
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One thing I’d love to give to every sex worker alive would be the gift of mindfulness. It wouldn’t alleviate poverty, resolve injustice, or wipe out whorephobia. But mindfulness surely does have a positive affect how we relate to problems as well as making us feel at home in our own bodies and minds.
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Winter is not an easy time in the sex industry. We need to plan accordingly.
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