Rage is a drug. Anger can act as a shield or an engine, and can be tremendously motivating. It also can be incredibly self-destructive.
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While plenty of books and articles offer step-by-step advice about how to manage finances, most of us aren’t taught to examine how money (or the lack of it) makes us feel. The result is many of us have money blind spots, which can result in unrealistic expectations, magical thinking and bad decision-making.
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If I have one regret from my decade as a 20-something, it's that I didn’t invest back when my whole life was stretched out in front of me. I didn’t start saving until I was in my thirties, and even then, I needed a lot of handholding. The biggest reason for this? I was afraid that as a sex worker, I couldn’t ask for help. That does not have to be you.
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Great new article by @sluttygrlprobs offering tons of great information for new cammers.
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My chat with Kyra and Shaye, two fabulous cam gals of Sex Work BB Podcast.
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I never encountered anyone who aged out of the sex industry. I saw people quit for all kinds of reasons, but nobody I ever met celebrated some black magic birthday and *poof* their phones stopped ringing.
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Focus on you. After all, your profile is the only one you have any control over, and the only one that will bring you any business. Obsessing over what others do distorts your values and intentions.
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Terrific podcast with Cameron Airen of Real Feminist Stories. We discuss sex work and self-care, of course, along with shame, emotional labor, and the intersection of feminism and sex work.
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When you’re forty, nobody is going to give two shits that you did sex work in your teens or twenties. Or your thirties. Or at all, ever. By the time you’re middle-aged, everyone has their story — they’ve struggled with addiction, they’ve gone bankrupt, they’ve had an abortion or been to jail or have a child who doesn’t speak to them...
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You are sexy as fuck, just as you are. Stop obsessing with some imaginary version of yourself. Instead, love what you’ve got.
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Advertising in the cam space is congested, contested, and confusing—standing out is not easy. Decisions we make today have potential repercussions—to our brand, our reputations, our sense of self—for years to come. So the stakes are high. This isn’t just our livelihoods we’re talking about—it’s our lives.
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Let me tell you what sex work money means, if no one has ever told you.
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